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		<title>One Thing We All Can Do To Address Violence &amp; Abuse In Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 14:19:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People often ask me, the tireless big mouth on the subject of toxic relationships, what&#8217;s one thing anyone and everyone should do to prevent such bad relationships.  My response is to tell them to educate children.
Children need to be taught that they have rights to their own bodies, that they have a right to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Finally, Sexual Assault Tips That Don&#8217;t Blame The Victims!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 18:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I didn&#8217;t write these rules &#8212; and neither did Jess McCabe at The F Word, where I found them &#8212; but as you see, we&#8217;re all supposed to share these rules:
Please distribute this list. Put it up in your place of work, in your university’s library or wherever you think they might be read:
1. Don’t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Postcards &amp; Posters For Domestic Violence Awareness Month</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/postcards-posters-for-domestic-violence-awareness-month/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 17:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Men Can Stop Rape helps us all celebrate Domestic Violence Awareness Month with a sale:
Target young men with inspiring images and messaging that highlight how they can be strong without overpowering others or resorting to violence:
So when men disrespect women,
we say that&#8217;s NOT RIGHT
Mention code DVAM20 when ordering 10 or more posters, 50 or more [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Alcohol Consumption, Alcohol Policies, and Risky Sexual Behaviors</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/alcohol-consumption-alcohol-policies-and-risky-sexual-behaviors/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 09:58:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[According to work by Sara Markowitz, Robert Kaestner, and Michael Grossman, &#8220;There appears to be no evidence suggesting a causal role of alcohol use in determining the probability of having sex.&#8221;
Linda Gorman breaks it down:

The consequences of risky sexual behavior fall heavily on teenagers and young adults. In 2002, the incidence rate for chlamydia was [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stand with the National Equality March in October</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 23:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From my NOW newsletter&#8230;
No woman will have full equality until all women have full equality, and we must seize every opportunity to ensure equal rights under the law for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. The National Organization for Women has proudly endorsed the National Equality March taking place in Washington, D.C., on Oct. 11, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He&#8217;s Got Wingmen; She&#8217;s Got Cock-Blockers</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/hes-got-wingmen-shes-got-cock-blockers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Also in the October issue of Psychology Today, a piece about cooperation in courtship by Matthew Hutson titled I&#8217;ve Got Wings.  The piece, complete with diagrams for play like a football coach would use, may have been so titled to play upon the old wingman dealio; but that&#8217;s only half the story as the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Feminism On A Friday</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/feminism-on-a-friday/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 15:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some quick responses to what I&#8217;ve been reading this week&#8230;
First, The Cult of Masculinity by Jennifer Kesler, which clearly articulates thoughts in my own head &#38; heart; specifically the following:
I must caution casual readers: this article is not a “Men’s Rights Activist” platform. The form of feminism I grew up taking seriously was the kind [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Facts About Children, Sex, Predators &amp; The Internet</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/the-facts-about-children-sex-predators-the-internet/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/09/the-facts-about-children-sex-predators-the-internet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 13:34:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last year the Internet Safety Technical Task Force released the Enhancing Child Safety and Online Technologies, the Final Report of the Internet Safety Technical Task Force to the Multi-State Working Group on Social Networking of State Attorneys General of the United States, but I wouldn&#8217;t have heard of it if it weren&#8217;t for the recent [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Help The Heavens Open Up For RAINN</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/08/help-the-heavens-open-up-for-rainn/</link>
		<comments>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/08/help-the-heavens-open-up-for-rainn/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 03:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[RAINN (Rape Abuse and Incest National Network) is the nation&#8217;s largest anti-sexual assault organization.  While the demand for their National Sexual Assault Hotline has doubled in the past year (their phone hotlines continue to help about 10,000 people each month), many funding sources are decreasing their support in this economy.  To raise funds [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Nice Girl Syndrome: Of Forced Hugs &amp; Boundary Setting</title>
		<link>http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/2009/08/nice-girl-syndrome-of-forced-hugs-boundary-setting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alessia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In You Can Insist Upon &#38; Apology, But You Shouldn&#8217;t Insist Upon A Hug, Deanna &#38; AAG agree that setting physical boundaries is important &#8212; even when it hurts another&#8217;s feelings to be rebuffed:
My absolute terror of being thought rude or of hurting someone’s feelings was one reason I found it so difficult to ward [...]]]></description>
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