Moby Vs. The Funding Terminator
October 28, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Victimization
Continuing to salute men who care enough to do something, I bring you the happy news that Moby has announced that he will donate 100% of the proceeds of his three California tour dates to help the state’s domestic violence shelters which have been struggling ever since Governor Schwarzenegger eliminated all State funding for shelter [...]
One Thing We All Can Do To Address Violence & Abuse In Relationships
October 21, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Advice, Safety, Toxic Relationships, Victimization
People often ask me, the tireless big mouth on the subject of toxic relationships, what’s one thing anyone and everyone should do to prevent such bad relationships. My response is to tell them to educate children.
Children need to be taught that they have rights to their own bodies, that they have a right to [...]
Postcards & Posters For Domestic Violence Awareness Month
September 30, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Safety, Sex, Victimization
Men Can Stop Rape helps us all celebrate Domestic Violence Awareness Month with a sale:
Target young men with inspiring images and messaging that highlight how they can be strong without overpowering others or resorting to violence:
So when men disrespect women,
we say that’s NOT RIGHT
Mention code DVAM20 when ordering 10 or more posters, 50 or more [...]
Stand with the National Equality March in October
September 25, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Legislating Personal Relationships, Safety, Victimization
From my NOW newsletter…
No woman will have full equality until all women have full equality, and we must seize every opportunity to ensure equal rights under the law for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. The National Organization for Women has proudly endorsed the National Equality March taking place in Washington, D.C., on Oct. 11, [...]
Criminal Cause Celebre
August 20, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Toxic Relationships
I don’t write about celebrities who get busted for domestic violence, rape & assaults because I don’t want to give them any attention and, if I may say so, press coverage. But…
In my thinking that as celebrities they are their own brands and that by the “any press is good press” philosophy by mentioning them [...]
Our Hidden Culture Is A Rape Culture
August 20, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Reality Self-Check, Victimization
A new video called Our Hidden Culture was put out by Community TV Network (CTVN), a non-profit organization that empowers Chicago youth with training in video and multi-media production. (CTVN’s award-winning TV show, Hard Cover: Voices and Visions of Chicago’s Youth, airs every Monday at 5:30pm and Tuesday at 12:30pm on cable channel CAN TV [...]
Help The Heavens Open Up For RAINN
RAINN (Rape Abuse and Incest National Network) is the nation’s largest anti-sexual assault organization. While the demand for their National Sexual Assault Hotline has doubled in the past year (their phone hotlines continue to help about 10,000 people each month), many funding sources are decreasing their support in this economy. To raise funds [...]
When Funding Is Cut
August 15, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Safety, Victimization
In an effort to reduce spending and balance the budget, Governor Schwarzenegger eliminated the $16.3 million initiative that funds domestic violence shelters statewide. The San Francisco Domestic Violence Consortium & Partners Ending Domestic Abuse did manage to get public funding restored — but I thought you should be aware of just how much of a [...]
I Interrupt National Romance Week For Some News…
August 12, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under About Alessia, Activism, Toxic Relationships, Victimization
At 8:00 A.M. on Saturday, August 15, 2009, Hope For Healing will be hosting their first ever Blogathon — 24 hours of blogging dedicated to raising awareness of & funds for helping victims of domestic violence. And I’ll be participating.
Twolia has generously & graciously sponsored me for this Blogathon & I’ll do everything I [...]
Men Who Get It — And Do Something About It (#2)
Continuing my support of men who “get it,”, today I salute Men Can Stop Rape, Inc. (MCSR), an international organization that mobilizes men to use their strength for creating cultures free from violence, especially men’s violence against women.
MCSR provides agencies, schools, and organizations with direct services for youth, public service messaging, and leadership training.
Our Mission
To [...]








