Breaking Free Is A Drag (Or, Drag Queens Part 1)
March 17, 2010 by Deanna
Filed under On Our Gay-dar, Sexism Is Sexy, You Outta Be In Pictures
Glowing Doll Danielle says she was “totally gob smacked” watching Freddie Mercury’s “sexy mustachioed housewife” in Queen’s I Want To Break Free.
In her post, Danielle also wrote:
I love drag queens because they can dress like women but without all of the pressure to look pretty or be sexy. I know there are plenty of women [...]
Dogs, Cats, Mr. Right, And Other Companion Animals
February 27, 2010 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Featured, Reality Self-Check, Relationship Rules & Wisdom
When making a list of qualities you are looking for in a mate, don’t overlook some of the basic fundamentals of companionship you’ve enjoyed in relationships with pets.
Forget about those jokes (and the sometimes realities) of people looking like their pets. Forget about Dominatrixes (and Cosmo articles) which tell you to treat your mate like [...]
Does Makeup Keep You From Getting Laid? (Or, When He Professes He Likes The ‘Natural’ Look)
November 13, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Appearance, Sex
Don’t you just hate it when your man turns to you and says, “I like you better without make-up,” or makes some comment about how he “prefers the natural look” — and you remember how you looked when you met, all dolled-up. You (and I) know that he was drawn to you for how you [...]
Make-Up Works: Exaggerated Beauty Gets Noticed
November 13, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Appearance, Studies
Also in the December issue of Psychology Today, Mina Shaghaghi reports on the findings of a series of studies by Richard Russell of Gettysburg College which explains the “allure of dramatic eye makeup and va-va-voom red lips on women has biological roots.”
It seems that what glamor girls do (whether they know it or not) is [...]
Can He Last Three Minutes?
November 11, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Appearance, Communication, Meeting A Potential Mate, Studies
In the November issue of O (and that stands for Oprah, not Orgasm or Overstock.com),
13 Dating & Relationship Tips You (Should Have) Learned From Your Friendships In Junior High
October 15, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Attitude, Relationship Rules & Wisdom
“Don’t take your partner/spouse for granted.” We hear that all the time, but what does that really mean? It means treating your lover — and other family members too — with the same respect and kindness you show your friends. (And don’t forget to demand the same in return!)
If you aren’t sure what this means, [...]
Pepsi Perpetuates Predatory Males
Pepsi’s latest foray into social media with an iPhone app for its AMP energy drink is more than trending on Twitter — it’s downright pissing women (and men who give a damn) off.
The “fun” application is called “before you score” — and yes, with “score” means what you think it does: getting laid. As in [...]
Uh, My Eyes Are Up Here, Bud.
October 9, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Appearance, Don We Now Our Gay Apparel
Every female who has had to remind a male to look her in the eye (or at least her face) as opposed to looking at her breasts when talking to her — and that’s a whole lot of us! — will find this item annoying.
In the October issue of Cosmo, Gossip Girl’s Penn Badgley models [...]
Women Who Want Sex Are Still Novelties
October 2, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Reality Self-Check, Sex
We women who admit we want sex must still be novelties if a national television show is putting out a casting call for us:
Women, what are the reasons that you have sex? Do you do it because it’s fun? Do you do it because you are truly in love with someone? Do [...]
Alcohol Consumption, Alcohol Policies, and Risky Sexual Behaviors
September 30, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Safety, Sex, Studies, Victimization
According to work by Sara Markowitz, Robert Kaestner, and Michael Grossman, “There appears to be no evidence suggesting a causal role of alcohol use in determining the probability of having sex.”
Linda Gorman breaks it down:
The consequences of risky sexual behavior fall heavily on teenagers and young adults. In 2002, the incidence rate for chlamydia was [...]








