He’s Got Wingmen; She’s Got Cock-Blockers
Also in the October issue of Psychology Today, a piece about cooperation in courtship by Matthew Hutson titled I’ve Got Wings. The piece, complete with diagrams for play like a football coach would use, may have been so titled to play upon the old wingman dealio; but that’s only half the story as the [...]
Maybe You’re Not Juliet
August 16, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Friends, Romantic Fantasy, Toxic Relationships
When Chelsie Hightower & Mark Kanemura Dance danced to Leona Lewis’ Bleeding Love on So You Think You Can Dance (choreography by Napoleon & Tabitha D’Uma), I was mesmerized…
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqAbm5og4kA[/youtube]
But the lyrics disturbed me; doubly so when the girls, my daughters, began singing it. Especially the chorus.
But I don’t care what they say
I’m in love with [...]
Settle Your Relationship Disagreements
June 15, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Arguing, Friends, Relationship Rules & Wisdom
Every relationship has its disagreements. The Fair & Square Pillow provides a daily reminder about how to deal with them and one another. (Perhaps you should get a pair of them and settle things with a — fair & square — pillow fight. *wink* )
And, if the relationship is doomed, remind yourself (or cheer your [...]
Putting Singles In Their Place
March 23, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Attitude, Friends, Relationship & Dating Humor
PlumParty.com calls this set of 8 placecard holders singles placecard holders:
But with labels such as “tease,” “high maintenance,” “gold digger,” “drama queen,” “damaged goods,” and “on the rebound,” I think they are perfectly wonderful for any good old-fashioned get together. Sure, for girls’ night, but how much fun to use as a party game [...]
Of Platonic Friendships, Jealousy & Tunics
February 6, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Fears, Friends, Reality Self-Check, Relationship Rules & Wisdom, Studies
Growing up, my dad often expressed the fact that men were always looking for sex.
When you just hung out with a boy, he’d outright ask — or at least those eyebrows would, “Did he make a move on you?”
When you laughed out loud that Steve was sooo not that kind of guy, dad said, “Oh, [...]
Valentine’s Day Dating & Relationship Tips
February 5, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Friends, Relationship Rules & Wisdom
Thirteen Thoughts About (& Some Gift Suggestions For) Valentine’s Day
For The Single:
1 Do remember your friends! It’s still fun to send & receive Valentines — even if they are silly, they are sweet.
2 Don’t be bitter -and go ahead, buy yourself something you want. Not to cheer yourself up, but to treat yourself. Hey, [...]
Merry Christmas!
Single or not, don’t forget to celebrate Christmas with your girlfriends!
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