Can He Last Three Minutes?
November 11, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Appearance, Communication, Meeting A Potential Mate, Studies
In the November issue of O (and that stands for Oprah, not Orgasm or Overstock.com),
Why Women Opt To Remain Single
August 25, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Absurd, Communication, Meeting A Potential Mate, Relationship & Dating Humor
A woman goes out with her friends, meets a guy named Dmitri and they talk for “at the most 2 minutes.” She hands him her business card and says call me… These are the voicemails he leaves her (with some images added for video appeal):
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c06pinaKl8o[/youtube]
Dating Fear Mongering, Single Mom Edition
July 20, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate, Safety, Victimization
Once again, supposed experts shoot their mouths off, using salacious headlines and fear to label & manipulate women; this time the horrible deeds are being done by Robert Siciliano at Single Minded Women.
In the article, Siciliano paints single mothers as easy prey for sexual predators:
…the one under-discussed, over looked and “it can’t happen to me” [...]
Refreshingly Honest Pond Scum
July 1, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate
I have mixed feelings about AshleyMadison.com, the “married dating & affairs” site… With a trademarked tagline of “Life is short. Have an affair.” they’re really putting the “tery” in adult dating sites. The adultery dating site even guarantees “an affair to remember.” While I suppose divorce court, public shunning, and loss of respect from your [...]
Are Dating Messages Too Ambiguous? And What Does That Mean About Rape?
June 17, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Communication, Meeting A Potential Mate, Relationship Rules & Wisdom, Studies, Victimization
In the journal Personality and Individual Differences (Volume 47, Issue 2, July 2009, Pages 145-149), T. Joel Wade, Lauren K. Butrie & Kelly M. Hoffman present findings of a study on the male perceptions of women’s opening lines. The study, dissected in further detail at PsyBlog, reveals that men prefer women to be very direct [...]
Your Mr. Right May Be Out To Sea
May 1, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate, Reality Self-Check
The Emmy & Peabody-award-winning company that produces Project Runway, Top Chef, and other top notch shows, Magical Elves, is currently working on and casting a new documentary series (read: reality television series) for a major television network “about marriage and people looking to get married” — specifically to find a suitor for a “handsome, tall, [...]
Real Women, Real Sizes, Real Love — Real Casting
April 14, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate, Reality Self-Check
Fox Network, Next Entertainment in association with Warner Horizon Television, and Mike Fleiss, producer of The Bachelor, have teamed up to produce More to Love, “billed as the first “dating show for the rest of us’.” It’s promoting itself as a dating show for average folks, “Real women. Real sizes. Real love.”
“We want to send [...]
Maxim Readers In Relationships Met Where?
March 20, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate, Studies
Continuing my look at Maxim’s 2009 Sex Survey…
An interesting point to note is that of the 45.8% of women who claim to be in a relationship at the time of this survey, 57.3% of them met their current partner via friends. That’s greater than all the other options (18.9% at work, 10.8% at bar or [...]
Better Fish In Another Pond?
March 18, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Meeting A Potential Mate
You got the looks, the career, the car, the social network — everything but Mr. Right and you want him!!
If you’re female, age 25 to 40, single, attractive and successful in every aspect of life except one… If you’ve ever had that feeling that Mr. Right is out there but not where you live… That [...]
Of Labeling, Limiting & Running Your Fingers Down Some New Spines
February 17, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Absurd, Advice, Meeting A Potential Mate
Andi (of Outer Limits — a most fun blog), has an excellent post: lesbian fiction, or does this book make me look gay? (Who doesn’t get sucked into reading with a title like that?!)
Her discussion (similar to this round-table: Labeling Lesbian Fiction Debate) centers on the issue of whether or not it is a service, [...]








