Dogs, Cats, Mr. Right, And Other Companion Animals
February 27, 2010 by Alessia
Filed under Advice, Featured, Reality Self-Check, Relationship Rules & Wisdom
When making a list of qualities you are looking for in a mate, don’t overlook some of the basic fundamentals of companionship you’ve enjoyed in relationships with pets.
Forget about those jokes (and the sometimes realities) of people looking like their pets. Forget about Dominatrixes (and Cosmo articles) which tell you to treat your mate like [...]
If You’re Lonely & Wistful This Valentine’s Day…
February 14, 2010 by Alessia
Filed under Breakups, Reality Self-Check, Romantic Fantasy
If the holiday of romance has you looking backwards, remembering a love you once had, a first love, instead of celebrating a romance of today or eagerly looking for the romance of the future, I ask you to limit your indulgent trip down memory lane to just this one day…
Anything longer, anything more than a [...]
Why Asking That Trite Astrology Question May Not Be So Dumb
November 3, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Reality Self-Check, Studies
In the December issue of Psychology Today (fast becoming my favorite magazine), Matthew Hutson shares unusual and revealing information about birth months and personality, saying, “Astrology may be bullocks, but your month of birth still guides your fate.”
No one is sure why birth dates affect mental traits, but environmental effects during the third trimester (weather, [...]
Jon Replaces His 8 Plus?
October 30, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Absurd, Reality Self-Check, Toxic Relationships
Rumor has it that Jon (of Jon and Kate + may be doing a “reality show” dating the Octomom. I heard it on some TV show or other, but Christine Navratil’s talking about it too.
What I don’t get is how they could even hope to apply the word “reality” to such a show. [...]
Women Who Want Sex Are Still Novelties
October 2, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Reality Self-Check, Sex
We women who admit we want sex must still be novelties if a national television show is putting out a casting call for us:
Women, what are the reasons that you have sex? Do you do it because it’s fun? Do you do it because you are truly in love with someone? Do [...]
How Rude!
September 11, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Absurd, Breakups, Reality Self-Check
An “Emmy Award Winning Talk Show” has placed the following casting call: I May Break-up With You…Because You’re TOO Rude!
Is it just me, or is the person who responds to this equally — if not more — rude as the person they are complaining about?
Even if the casting call insists, “Don’t write in unless both [...]
What Signals Are You Sending? (How & Why To See Yourself As Others See You)
August 28, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Communication, Reality Self-Check
Check out the October issue of Psychology Today; it’s full of great dating information (even if it’s not all listed as such). For example, the cover art & headline “What Signals Are You Sending?” which goes with a feature by Sam Gosling, entitled Mixed Signals.
In the article, Gosling discusses our personal blind spots to the [...]
Our Hidden Culture Is A Rape Culture
August 20, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Activism, Reality Self-Check, Victimization
A new video called Our Hidden Culture was put out by Community TV Network (CTVN), a non-profit organization that empowers Chicago youth with training in video and multi-media production. (CTVN’s award-winning TV show, Hard Cover: Voices and Visions of Chicago’s Youth, airs every Monday at 5:30pm and Tuesday at 12:30pm on cable channel CAN TV [...]
Sensationalized Sexist TV That’s Mean To Men?
July 22, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Absurd, Appearance, Reality Self-Check
Have you seen these screaming headlines yet:
Is your boyfriend/husband HAIRY and you are sick of it?? Now Casting
and
America’s Uggliest Husband — Is he yours?
Can you imagine if we saw headlines & programs dedicated to calling women ugly? If we saw casting calls announcing how husbands who were sick of their wives looks could get help [...]
Is Dating In The Dark Treating Us Like Mushrooms?
July 21, 2009 by Alessia
Filed under Appearance, Reality Self-Check
You know the old joke, “I must be a mushroom because people keep me in the dark and feed me BS,” right? So when I heard about ABC’s Dating In The Dark, I was suspicious. My verdict? The bad news is that the new reality dating show is unremarkable. But then again, the [...]








